Play is just for kids….right? Wrong! As adults, it’s sometimes easy for us to get bogged down in the stresses of everyday life and responsibilities. We may find ourselves being caught up in personal and professional duties, such as being someone’s parent or being someone’s employee, and losing sight of ourselves as individuals. We may forget the importance of self-care, and living a truly balanced life.
For me, play has become an integral part of my life. There is something about devoting time to just having fun that helps create a sense of light-heartedness, that feeling like I’m a kid again which keeps me positive, smiling and happy. Often when I come home from work, I feel exhausted. Instantly, my mind and body go to battle as I try hard to resist the urge to pull on my sweats, curl up on the couch with the remote and a bowl of popcorn, watching some mind-numbing reality TV. Instead, I walk through the door, my kids come running, they wrestle me to the ground, and somehow I am instantly transformed into a human horse, toting a three-year-old around the house on my back as she laughs hysterically. I can feel the stress leave my body and I begin to relax, recharge, and revitalize. Other days, play may take the form of camping trips, kayaking, team sports, building blanket tents with my kids, summer BBQs with friends, and above all enjoying life surrounded by the people I love, doing the things I love to do.
Experts seem to agree that free, open-ended, pointless play is important to people of all ages. We stand to reap several benefits from play such as release from stress and anxiety, enjoyment, and enhancement of memory and imagination, all of which can help us to stay mentally fit.
I encourage everyone to start looking at play differently and not as something that is exclusively owned by children. Give yourself permission to have fun and make it part of your daily routine. Your body, mind and spirit will thank you in the end.
When was the last time you truly played?
About Maria Bunkowski
Maria Bunkowski is the Community Response Nurse for mental health and addictions services in Prince Rupert. She has been nursing since 2006 with a background primarily in internal medicine, and is really enjoying the challenge that this new position brings. When she isn't working, Maria enjoys spending time with her young family, interior design, and exploring the great outdoors.